August 26th! My 38th Birthday! This day I woke up a little later lol and had some lunch at the Buffet. I was craving white rice with beans and ended up adding a lot to my plate. It was a delicious mix haha. I took a picture but don’t think any one wants to see it.

I woke up admiring my skin color. I wanted to get a few shades darker while away. And that was something easy to check off my list.

I also racked up on the toiletries lol. These will be used on other trips.

The day was another sun filled one by the pool and then the beach. My favorite way to Vacation!

The bar staff were very attentive! I’ll admit one was flirting with me. Got me the best seat. And my cup was alway being filled 👌🏽

This was my favorite bathing suit on the trip. I just loved the color and the fabric. Although the same name brand as the blue seen in previous post, the material is softer. I purchased the last one in this print and Small size. They have MANY color/fabric options. You can purchase your own here: https://amzn.to/3BnqSp0

I also wore my white cover up when in the eating areas or very public areas. Although the resort was adult only, I’d do it for my own comfort. You can purchase one here: https://amzn.to/3zBV4ME

Here’s another Amazon find! My water proof flip flops. They don’t over heat in the sun, are 100% recyclable and are available in different colors: https://amzn.to/3XLsdNQ

I think when I took this picture was when I felt a wave of emotions wash over me. Or was it while I was reading? Not sure, but I remember laying on the chair and feeling this wave take over my body. And I just started to cry. I cried because I missed my mother, because I was so happy to be back where we (my family and I) were all born. I cried over many things. But my mom being the main one. I felt her energy. It was as if she wrapped me up in her arms.

This was my favorite day at the beach. It was intentional. I cleansed in the ocean, I spent time sitting and laying on the shoreline and just letting things out and go. I believe I was feeling the effects of this for about a week after I returned home.

On my way to my room after the beach. I got kind of “lost” lol. But didn’t panic and just decided to keep walking. I found this flower in the middle of the path. I felt guided to take it and accepted it as a gift from the Holy Spirit and my Spiritual team. This was just another example of the many “special” things that happened to me while away that reminded me. I am not alone. I am loved. I am protected.

When I got to my room. I was greeted by this beautiful surprise. It was arranged by my Butler Phillipe! ☺️🫶🏽

It was time to get ready for my Birthday dinner. I made reservations for 7:30 PM. It would give me time to eat, and relax and to make it to that night’s show in the Theater.

It’s no surprise that the color choice was green! It’s been my color. It’s the color that matches the Heart Chakra and it’s one area I’ve been actively working on and healing.

Outfit details: Body suit is from Lulu’s, shoes from Schutz, and Handbag from Anthropologie. Accessories are from a jewelry curating small business on Instagram and from Amazon: https://amzn.to/3zwWsQJ

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And I was off to dinner. I went to the Italian Restaurant Portofino. I had their Salad, Tomato soup, and Potato Gnocci (which I still think about). The food was delicious. I didn’t get dessert since I knew I had my chocolate cake waiting for me in the suite.

Off to see Queen! The show ☺️

The show was VERY entertaining! I had no idea that I knew and loved so many of their songs. I ended up sitting next to my suite neighbors. We’d always find each other.

My cake was delicious. My entire day although emotional was delicious. After the Queen show, I went to the main lobby where they had a duo of Salsa singers covering popular songs. I danced. And met two angels that I know were sent specially for me. This chapter has already proven to be significant. A lot of shedding. So much shedding and letting go of things that no longer serve me. That shit is not easy. But I’m going with the flow. Letting go and letting God.

Thank you for reliving these fond memories of my special day. I hope I’ve inspired someone out there to go after what it is that they want. Even if others don’t understand you. Just do it for yourself. I know one things for certain. I’m going away again before the end of this Calendar year that’s for certain. Solo? Accompanied? Who knows?!

Love, light, the shadow too—- Cin.

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My second day was spent venturing around the resort grounds to capture and soak in its beauty. One thing I can say is that pictures do not do it justice! I captured a decent amount of video footage that I have to edit prior to sharing in hopes you can see how lovely this space is. Truly perfect for a romantic getaway. Or in my case, a solo relaxing getaway.

This is the Healthy Corner hut where I got an all natural fruit smoothie. I ordered a Refreshing.

This was my suite’s swim up pool.

My waterproof sandals. I used these at the pool and at the beach. They never got overheated. Purchase them at Amazon! Here’s the link: https://amzn.to/47qxQ8H

During my stay, I had workers knock at my door. Apparently the do not disturb, and housekeeping service lights outside of the door weren’t working. Inside of the room there are buttons labeled as such. You press them when you don’t want to be disturbed or housekeeping to service your room. It is also the doorbell that they press and heard throughout the room, versus knocking.

I went back to the Cafe and ordered the wrap that I originally wanted (remember? I messed up and opted for the lasagna?)

After pool and beach time I went back to my room to shower and change clothes. I knew I wanted to go to the all white beach party after dinner. Unfortunately dinner required reservations so I had to wait. I walked back to my room to change out of the original green outfit straight into my white one. It was just to time manage. That way I’d be able to head straight to the beach after eating.

I had Japanese veggie fried rice. No, I didn’t eat the Tofu. But the rice was delicious!! Made to perfection. I had a salad prior to that.

I didn’t take pictures during the Reggae concert at the beach but I did get video footage. Be patient for that please.

The resort has a different vibe at night. Very romantic and peaceful.

It was the perfect day. I take myself back at least once a day lol.

Thanks for stopping by! My posts have been random and posted out of regular schedule but it’s alright!

Do I miss Instagram? No. I do not. And if anyone from there misses me they’ll reach out. I’m being protective of my energy and space. Kind of feel like a butterfly going back into a cocoon.

Weirdo shit happened while I was away. I noticed a lot of things about people that I thought were on my side and cheering for me. People that I considered family that showed their true colors (whether they meant to or not).

I am also implementing new set of boundaries. Not as a shield or to protect myself from hurt or disrespect. But just as an outline because apparently people need reminding on what and what not to get a pass on when it comes to the way they handle you.

“I will give back what is given” being one of them. A lot of my relationships are alive because I’ve put in the effort. No more one sided shit. I don’t care who you are. If I can make and take initiate to see you, or keep in touch with you, you can too. Simple. Taking initiative is not something easy for everyone to do and I understand that. But we are grown and we can do hard things and try new things. It’s a part of life and growing. It’s okay to evolve. I’ve done a lot of it (didn’t feel like I’ve been given much of a choice) and yeah, if it pulls me out of spaces or people I’ve outgrown? So be it. Feeling very unapologetic over here. Very no b-essy (bullshit), very cut anyone off-y. Very demure lmao jk jk.

Anyway thanks for coming to my Ted talk lol.

Love, light, and the shadow too!—-Cin

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